How to be a better man

A w0man asking for a break in a relationship is her telling you “I’m tired of you, so I want to go out there to try out my other options, if it doesn’t work out, I’ll be back to you”. 

Kings, don’t allow any w0man use you as a fall back option.

Men need to understand that w0men don’t go on breaks to better themselves, it’s not because they want to do a 40 days prayer and fasting, not because they need to concentrate on their fast approaching exams. They’re literally telling you they’re tired of the relationship.

Some of you will say “but we have a misunderstanding at the moment” Truth is, when there’s a problem/misunderstanding, you need a w0man who’s smart enough to talk it out with you til y’all find a solution to it, not one who’s picking distance so the problem can remain.

There’s no two ways about it, her message is clear enough; She’s tired of the relationship. So, she’d go out there to try out the new guy(s). The moment she’s sure about him, she’ll come back to you and demand for a break up.

She’ll only come back to stay the moment she’s not getting what she wants out there. She wouldn’t break up straight only because she’s not sure about the new guy yet. Hence, the break.

I repeat, don’t allow any w0man use you as a fall back option. Once she ask you for a break, end it for her before she ends it with you.